10 suggestions as a starting point for a conversation with my child
"I can understand that you are interested in these pages. I used to like it, but I had other possibilities. What do you think?"
"Today I heard of a study that says that 60 percent of 11 to 14-year-olds have already visited sites with pornographic content. And you are 12. Do you visit such sites? "
"I got the word disgusting today and ended up on a porn site. Have you ever done this before? "
"I hear from colleagues that they have stress with their children because they look porn. They are a bit older than you, but I have wondered if you have ever landed on a porn site? Can we talk about this?"
"I was embarrassed as I walked past your laptop. There was a porn movie to watch. It is hard for me to talk to you about it, but I do it and ask you to do it. "
"I do not want you to watch porn. Let us look together for rules on how we deal with it in the family. "
"I'm very worried, because I know you're watching porn, what fascinates you about it?"
"I know you're watching porn and that scares me. I make myself guilty if I do not mind. Do you know that?"
"When I think about my youth, I realize that we have looked secretly at VHS cassettes Josefine Mutzenbacher. She was a Viennese prostitute and has played in some porn movies. Today, everything is quite different. In a few minutes you can click as many videos as you want. What do you think about that?"
"I am just surprised because a colleague told me that it is normal for young people to send free pictures about their smartphone. Is that correct?"
"When I think about how I made my first free-moving photo of my firm friend / girlfriend - yes, with a photo camera and then waiting for days until I saw it developed and could give it to you - then that is Yes the madness, how fast today with WhatsApp or Snapchat goes. That makes me really afraid. Especially because I do not know who can see it all. Do you feel the same? "
"I've heard of the" trend "sexting today. This means as much as sending intimate / erotic pictures or videos of themselves over the Internet. Have you ever done this before? Can we talk about this?"